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Writing the perfect dating profile
Twelve years ago, I took a chance and wrote a personal ad. My finished product reflected my attitude at the time—a combination of "you have to play to win" and "hey, why not?
If you're not comfortable putting your picture up online, avoid overselling your appearance with dubious claims like "Sharon Stone look-alike." I started my magazine personal with: "Curvy, almond-eyed writer, fit (good shoulders)...." My husband says he was attracted to the soft sell of the description and the quirky confidence of the assertion.
Instead of saying you're funny or well educated or caring, demonstrate that.
Try an ad that consists entirely of your favorite movie dialogue or a list of beloved fictional characters.
My ad requested a man "financially stable, kinda handsome, who can slow dance, make me laugh, read between the lines." Cast a wide net and edit out the responses.
A woman I know snagged a boyfriend when she described her ideal job as a combination of circus performer and archaeologist. Unless you know for sure that you only want to meet, say, a nonsmoking Portuguese-speaking dentist, go easy on the list of qualities he must have.
Don't "like fine dining" when you can be passionate about Memphis barbecue, don't "enjoy movies" when you can declare your enthusiasm for Mel Brooks. Include the basics: your age and occupation, whether or not you have children, whether you're looking for a date or a life partner. "Mid-30s" or "early 40s" is fine, but assume he'll round up.8.
If you're 42 but look 32, say so (or let your picture do the talking).
If you want to be lucky to find the love of your life through online dating sites, you need to understand the importance of having the perfect online dating profile.
While you need to look attractive and decent in your profile photos, you know that it takes more than just physical appearance to find a serious relationship.
And it all starts by making sure that you have a compelling profile so people will find you interesting, and therefore, give you more opportunities to connect and meet the right people.