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How to stop being intimidating

Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .If there is one phrase I'm tired of men dropping, it's, “You're intimidating."Before I jump up on my soapbox and make myself even more "intimidating," let me write a disclaimer: This article is not intended for the woman you are too afraid to approach.

That is, unless you want women to just start calling you a resting assh*le (“RA” for short).

Women won't stop at your face; we'll label all of you as that.

I'm not talking about the woman you're too scared to talk to.

I'm talking about the woman that you dream of, finally find and chase down, but then are too afraid to date.

I'm talking about this bizarre open conversation that happens at one of two points in a relationship: You somehow turn “you're intimidating” into an opening line.

Why, yes, you now have my attention because I'm now curious about your psyche.We've been talking for a while, maybe even tried the dating thing, and for whatever reason, you feel the need to inform me (as if I didn't already know) that I'm intimidating.I applaud your honesty, but why are you telling me this?Do you feel better after getting this off your chest, as if we are in a first interview and you need to shake your nerves by being brutally honest?Newsflash: This is not an interview and even if it were, you would never tell the person interviewing you that he or she is “intimidating."I'd rather you just tell me you're nervous because it's endearing.Besides, if you actually took a chance to get to know me, you would realize I am the last person who should intimidate you, and here's why: Here are five things you should know about the woman you keep calling “intimidating”: One reason why relationships fail is that one or both parties find themselves bored and develop wandering eyes, ears and hands (sadly).Guess what: The person who slightly intimidates you is also the person who will constantly keep your attention.The story behind who she is and the elements you find so intimidating are what you will fall madly in love with.Her trials, tribulations, successes, the way she expresses herself, captivates an audience, works a room, shows compassion, stands her ground or maybe even how she writes.All of these are products of her story, and you love them. You just might not be able to get enough; and yes that can be frightening, but it can also be amazing.You love them so much that you proudly tell her story for her; you tell it to your friends, family, colleagues and yourself in the mirror. If you like what's in front of you, take it off the market.

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